Finding the One

I’m just back from the hen weekend of one of my best friends in the world. It was a fab weekend with some amazing ladies, in preparation for what I know will be a beautiful day in less than three weeks.

How do I know it will be a beautiful day? Because my friend is marrying “the one”.

I know, I know, a lot of people out there find the idea that there is one perfect person out there for all of us completely ridiculous. They turn their nose up at the very idea as the stuff of Disney movies and romance novels. But I wholeheartedly disagree.

Admittedly I am a real old romantic who grew up with princess movies and happy ever afters, but they’re not the reason I disagree.

I believe in “the one” because I’ve seen it happen time and time again, even today.

You know the relationships I mean; they’re the ones where each person balances the other perfectly, and the ones you come away from with your faith in love and happiness renewed.

That’s not to say that neither of those people has any faults, just that they’re perfect for each other. And it’s not to say that they never argue or have tough times, just that they get through those things and make up for them.

I firmly believe there is this relationship out there for each and every one of us if we want it, and when we’re ready for it. The key is that second part – being ready.

I’ve lost track of the number of times I’ve read that the only way to invite “the one” into your life is by learning to love yourself. And in days gone by I used to read those articles and think it must be a pile of rubbish, because otherwise surely there would be some sort of instruction manual on exactly how to do that, which there never was.

But over recent years I’ve worked hard on exactly that, and via a good few wrong turns (and wrong men!) I’ve found the path for myself.

Along the way it’s something I’ve become really passionate about passing on to other people. So much so I’ve become something of an expert when it comes to self love, and have come to really relish the role of relationship mentor as I’ve stepped into it.

Consequently as part of a new step for Aurora, I’ve put together a complimentary workbook – Seven Secrets to Finding the One – to help start your journey along that path too.

Drop me an email for a copy of the workbook and to start your journey towards finding The One.

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